•• شخصياً؛ أشعر بألم شديد بفراق الأحبة.. جحيم لا أطيقه مع أنه من سنن الحياة.. أحسست بذلك حين أبلغني صديق مقدَّس بمغادرته النهائية إلى بلاده ببلوغه الستين.. قال لي: «عشت سنوات طويلة في غاية الجمال في بلادكم بين أصدقائي السعوديين، كانوا نِعْم الرجال».. من ميزاته: يبذل جهوداً لفهم أصدقائه واحتوائهم، يعرف كيف يختارهم، ويدرك معنى التوافق والاختلاف الفكري مع من يعاشر.
•• العلاقة الطيبة تكريس للمعنى الحقيقي للحياة.. لكن -للأسف- هناك من لديه سيل لا ينتهي من وجع التباعد؛ فعندما يحين وقت الفراق تحضره سريعاً لحظات الوداع المؤلمة.. وهناك من يصيبه الرعب حين يفارق أحبته، رغم أنه يتظاهر بغير ذلك.. يظل هذا النقي الوفي في صراع مستمر مع الفقد حدّ المبالغة.. يصل إلى المرحلة الأخيرة من التأثر رغم مقدرته على تحمُّل الفراق.
•• مثل هذا الرجل تُقرأ طيبته من عينيه الذكيتين شديدتي البريق.. يمارس فن الحياة الطيبة؛ فيتوغل في محارات معاني المودة بحثاً عن لآلئ تنضم لعائلة القلوب.. مطره يقي أصدقاءه من التصحّر، فلا يعرفون معه إلا فصل الاخضرار.. لا يتقن إلا لغة الينبوع، فلا يتأمر على أحد.. يغرد بحرية فوق شجر الوجدان المثمرة في زمن اليباس.. فهلا يكف مثل هؤلاء عن الرحيل؟!.
•• في المقابل؛ هناك من دخل «النكد» عقله وقلبه مبكراً.. تغيب عنه اقتناص متعة الحياة، فلا يستطيع تهيئة وسادة مريحة لأصدقائه.. لا يفهم إلا العيش في ظل «تعاسة» تشوهه، و«شقاء» يشوه المجتمع.. منظوره وأخلاقه وعلاقاته يدونها بلغة سرية لا يفك شفرتها إلا هو.. بداخله أفكار قميئة تحول شعرات رأسه إلى ثعبان يفتك بمن حوله.. تجربة مُرة يعيشها هذا المشؤوم مع الحياة.
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•• Personally; I feel a deep pain from the separation of loved ones.. A hell I cannot endure even though it is one of life's traditions.. I felt this when a dear friend informed me of his final departure to his country upon reaching sixty.. He said to me: "I lived many beautiful years in your country among my Saudi friends; they were wonderful men".. One of his traits: he makes efforts to understand and embrace his friends, knows how to choose them, and realizes the meaning of intellectual harmony and difference with those he associates with.
•• A good relationship is a dedication to the true meaning of life.. But -unfortunately- there are those who have an endless stream of the pain of separation; when the time for parting comes, painful moments of farewell quickly arise.. There are those who are filled with terror when they part from their loved ones, even though they pretend otherwise.. This loyal pure soul remains in a continuous struggle with loss to the point of exaggeration.. He reaches the final stage of being affected despite his ability to endure separation.
•• Such a man has his kindness read from his bright, intelligent eyes.. He practices the art of a good life; he delves into the shells of meanings of affection in search of pearls to join the family of hearts.. His rain protects his friends from desiccation, so they know only the season of greenness with him.. He masters only the language of the spring, so he does not command anyone.. He sings freely above the fruitful trees of sentiment in a time of barrenness.. So why can't such people stop leaving?!.
•• In contrast; there are those whose "misery" has entered their minds and hearts early on.. They miss out on the joy of life, unable to prepare a comfortable pillow for their friends.. They understand only living under "misery" that distorts them, and "suffering" that distorts society.. Their perspective, morals, and relationships are recorded in a secret language that only they can decipher.. Inside them are vile thoughts that turn their hair into a snake that harms those around them.. A bitter experience is lived by this accursed one with life.
•• A good relationship is a dedication to the true meaning of life.. But -unfortunately- there are those who have an endless stream of the pain of separation; when the time for parting comes, painful moments of farewell quickly arise.. There are those who are filled with terror when they part from their loved ones, even though they pretend otherwise.. This loyal pure soul remains in a continuous struggle with loss to the point of exaggeration.. He reaches the final stage of being affected despite his ability to endure separation.
•• Such a man has his kindness read from his bright, intelligent eyes.. He practices the art of a good life; he delves into the shells of meanings of affection in search of pearls to join the family of hearts.. His rain protects his friends from desiccation, so they know only the season of greenness with him.. He masters only the language of the spring, so he does not command anyone.. He sings freely above the fruitful trees of sentiment in a time of barrenness.. So why can't such people stop leaving?!.
•• In contrast; there are those whose "misery" has entered their minds and hearts early on.. They miss out on the joy of life, unable to prepare a comfortable pillow for their friends.. They understand only living under "misery" that distorts them, and "suffering" that distorts society.. Their perspective, morals, and relationships are recorded in a secret language that only they can decipher.. Inside them are vile thoughts that turn their hair into a snake that harms those around them.. A bitter experience is lived by this accursed one with life.


