الخوف من الفشل، ليس مجرد شعور عابر، بل ربما يكون مقبرةً للأحلام وسارقاً للنجاح، إلا أن قصة الأمريكية «لورا شولتز» تثبت أن تجاوز هذا الخوف قد يحول الإنسان إلى نسخة جديدة من ذاته قادرة على اقتحام المستحيل.
عام 1977، وجدت (لورا) -البالغة حينها 63 عاماً- نفسها أمام موقف مصيري عندما حشر ذراع حفيدها تحت مؤخرة سيارة، ورغم معاناتها من (الروماتيزم) وآلام المفاصل؛ استطاعت رفع السيارة بيديها العاريتين لتنقذ حياته. قوة لم تعرفها في نفسها من قبل، لكنها أيقنت أنها كانت كامنة تنتظر لحظة الخطر لتستيقظ.
هذه الحادثة لم تنقذ حفيدها فقط، بل غيرت حياتها هي أيضاً، فقد عادت (لورا) إلى مقاعد الدراسة وأكملت تعليمها حتى حصلت على شهادتها الجامعية، ثم أصبحت أستاذة جامعية وهي في السبعين من عمرها، محققة حلم عمرها الذي طالما كبله الخوف. وفي لقاء معها قالت: «اكتشفت أنني كنت قادرة طوال حياتي، لكن خوفي من الفشل كان يمنعني».
القصة لم تتوقف عند حدود البطولات الفردية، بل أصبحت مثالاً لما يعرف في علم النفس «العلاج بالصدمة» أو «علاج التعرض»؛ وهي تقنية علاجية يواجه فيها الإنسان مخاوفه عبر محفزات صادمة تفرض عليه اتخاذ موقف يعيد تشكيل أفكاره وسلوكياته. هذا النهج يستخدم في علاج حالات معقدة مثل (الفوبيا) واضطراب ما بعد الصدمة، أو آثار الاعتداء والعيش في بيئات سامة.
ويرى (سيغموند فرويد) -أحد أبرز المؤسسين لهذا الاتجاه- أن الإنسان بحاجة إلى أزمات مفصلية توقظ طاقاته الكامنة، وتعيد توجيه بوصلته الفكرية، ليكتشف مكنونات داخلية كانت غائبة عنه.
القصة تؤكد أن العقل البشري قادر على تحطيم القيود إذا تخلص من الخوف، وأن اللحظة التي يقول فيها المرء «أنا أستطيع» قد تكون بداية ولادة جديدة تقوده نحو إنجازات غير متوقعة.
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Fear of failure is not just a fleeting feeling; it can be a graveyard for dreams and a thief of success. However, the story of American "Laura Schultz" proves that overcoming this fear can transform a person into a new version of themselves capable of breaking through the impossible.
In 1977, Laura, who was 63 at the time, found herself in a life-or-death situation when her grandson's arm got trapped under the back of a car. Despite suffering from rheumatism and joint pain, she managed to lift the car with her bare hands to save his life. It was a strength she had never known within herself before, but she realized it had been dormant, waiting for a moment of danger to awaken.
This incident not only saved her grandson but also changed her life. Laura returned to school and completed her education, eventually earning her college degree. She became a university professor at the age of seventy, fulfilling a lifelong dream that fear had long held back. In an interview, she said, "I discovered that I had been capable my whole life, but my fear of failure was holding me back."
The story did not stop at individual heroics; it became an example of what is known in psychology as "exposure therapy" or "shock therapy." This therapeutic technique involves confronting fears through shocking stimuli that compel a person to take a stance that reshapes their thoughts and behaviors. This approach is used to treat complex cases such as phobias, post-traumatic stress disorder, or the effects of abuse and living in toxic environments.
Sigmund Freud, one of the prominent founders of this approach, believed that individuals need pivotal crises to awaken their dormant energies and redirect their intellectual compass, allowing them to discover inner truths that were previously hidden.
The story confirms that the human mind is capable of breaking free from constraints if it sheds fear, and the moment a person says, "I can," may be the beginning of a new birth leading them toward unexpected achievements.
In 1977, Laura, who was 63 at the time, found herself in a life-or-death situation when her grandson's arm got trapped under the back of a car. Despite suffering from rheumatism and joint pain, she managed to lift the car with her bare hands to save his life. It was a strength she had never known within herself before, but she realized it had been dormant, waiting for a moment of danger to awaken.
This incident not only saved her grandson but also changed her life. Laura returned to school and completed her education, eventually earning her college degree. She became a university professor at the age of seventy, fulfilling a lifelong dream that fear had long held back. In an interview, she said, "I discovered that I had been capable my whole life, but my fear of failure was holding me back."
The story did not stop at individual heroics; it became an example of what is known in psychology as "exposure therapy" or "shock therapy." This therapeutic technique involves confronting fears through shocking stimuli that compel a person to take a stance that reshapes their thoughts and behaviors. This approach is used to treat complex cases such as phobias, post-traumatic stress disorder, or the effects of abuse and living in toxic environments.
Sigmund Freud, one of the prominent founders of this approach, believed that individuals need pivotal crises to awaken their dormant energies and redirect their intellectual compass, allowing them to discover inner truths that were previously hidden.
The story confirms that the human mind is capable of breaking free from constraints if it sheds fear, and the moment a person says, "I can," may be the beginning of a new birth leading them toward unexpected achievements.


