يستسهل بعض رواد وسائل التواصل الاجتماعي الشتم والانتقاص تحت عنوان «الرأي والرأي الآخر»، ولا أعلم من سهّل لهم هذا العمل غير المحترم، لكنني أعلم أن لهم شركاء من إعلاميين ونشطاء اتخذوا منهم «مثلاً وقدوة»، وبئس المثل القدوة.
الاختلاف أمر طبيعي وسنّة حياة، لكن يفترض أن يكون اختلافاً له دلالات توعوية تضيف لك ولي ولهم ولا تقتص منا.
يمر علينا في وسائل التواصل الاجتماعي كثير من هذه النماذج التي لا تملك إلا الشتم والردح ونتركهم كما هم للريح، للمطر؛ لأن هذا كل فكرهم.
«أنت تكره الهلال».. اتهام مباشر وجدته هذه المرة من زميل، فقلت له لا يوجد في مسيرتي ما يجيز لك أن تقول مثل هذا الاتهام، ففي الرياضة لا يوجد حب وكراهية إلا عند «أمثالك».
فعلاً، يجب ألا يجرنا اختلافنا إلى الوقوع في شراك التعاطي مع مفردة الكراهية، سيما بين إعلام وإعلام آخر، فمثل هذا فيه اتهام مباشر ينبغي أن نعرض عنه لكي لا يتم التعميم من خلال فئة جاهزة لتبني ذلك.
صحيح أنني أهلاوي الميول، لكن في ميولي استقامة تجعلني أنأى بنفسي عن مثل هذه «المعارك»، التي فعلاً قد تخسر ما يعتبره غيرك مكسباً.
صديقي عبيد أهدى لي هذه الومضة وارتأيت أن أهديها لكم: «الحياة لا تهديك كل ما تريد، ولا تمنحك الأشخاص الذين تتمناهم، ولكنها جعلت لك حق الاختيار وفرز القرار، فما تراه أنت صواباً افعله ولكن راقب دائماً النتائج».
أخيراً.. «ملعقة من القطران يمكن أن تفسد برميلاً من العسل، لكن ملعقة من العسل لا تفعل شيئاً لبرميل من القطران»، مثل روسي.
تابع قناة عكاظ على الواتساب
Some social media users find it easy to insult and belittle others under the guise of "opinion and the other opinion." I do not know who made this disrespectful behavior acceptable for them, but I know that they have partners among journalists and activists who have taken them as "examples and role models," and what a poor example that is.
Disagreement is a natural part of life, but it should be a disagreement that carries educational significance, adding value for you, me, and them, rather than taking away from us.
We come across many such examples on social media that only possess insults and bickering, and we leave them as they are, to the wind, to the rain; because that is all their thought encompasses.
"You hate Al-Hilal"… a direct accusation I found this time from a colleague, so I told him there is nothing in my history that justifies you making such an accusation, for in sports, there is no love or hate except among "people like you."
Indeed, our differences should not lead us to fall into the trap of engaging with the notion of hatred, especially between one media outlet and another, as such accusations should be avoided so that they are not generalized by a ready-made group to adopt that.
It is true that I am inclined towards Al-Ahli, but my inclination is such that it keeps me away from such "battles," which can indeed cause you to lose what others consider a gain.
My friend Obaid gifted me this insight, and I thought I would share it with you: "Life does not give you everything you want, nor does it grant you the people you wish for, but it has given you the right to choose and make decisions, so do what you see as right, but always watch the results."
Finally… "A spoonful of tar can spoil a barrel of honey, but a spoonful of honey does nothing to a barrel of tar," a Russian proverb.
Disagreement is a natural part of life, but it should be a disagreement that carries educational significance, adding value for you, me, and them, rather than taking away from us.
We come across many such examples on social media that only possess insults and bickering, and we leave them as they are, to the wind, to the rain; because that is all their thought encompasses.
"You hate Al-Hilal"… a direct accusation I found this time from a colleague, so I told him there is nothing in my history that justifies you making such an accusation, for in sports, there is no love or hate except among "people like you."
Indeed, our differences should not lead us to fall into the trap of engaging with the notion of hatred, especially between one media outlet and another, as such accusations should be avoided so that they are not generalized by a ready-made group to adopt that.
It is true that I am inclined towards Al-Ahli, but my inclination is such that it keeps me away from such "battles," which can indeed cause you to lose what others consider a gain.
My friend Obaid gifted me this insight, and I thought I would share it with you: "Life does not give you everything you want, nor does it grant you the people you wish for, but it has given you the right to choose and make decisions, so do what you see as right, but always watch the results."
Finally… "A spoonful of tar can spoil a barrel of honey, but a spoonful of honey does nothing to a barrel of tar," a Russian proverb.


